WOMEN AND SEX HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH LOVE*******√√√√√

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WOMEN AND SEX HAVE NOTHING TO DO WITH
LOVE*******√√√√√

Women have sex for the same reasons men do.
Because they can. And then some. Here's a
sneaky cure for the 'headache' epidemic.
Basic instincts are anything but basic. If the
book Why Women Have Sex by clinical
psychologist Cindy Meston and evolutionary
psychologist David Buss is to be believed,
women and sex have almost nothing to do with
love. They have, however, found 237 other
reasons. If you thought women were
complicated earlier, good luck stroking this one.
After over a thousand interviews, Meston and
Buss have managed to fashion a nuanced
portrait of female sexuality. Sexual motivations
for women are wide ranging — using sex as a
defensive tactic against a mate's infidelity
(protection); a ploy to boost self-confidence
(status); a barter for gifts or household chores
(resource acquisition); a cure for a migraine
(medication). Somewhere, love finds a mention.
So the question is what makes women tick?
Why are Clooney and Saif (for us) and Dilip
Kumar (for our mothers) still our mental go-to
guys?
Like it or not, it has little to do with your
tailored suit and suave haircut and more to do
with your genetic disposition and complimentary
MHC (Major histo-compatibility) gene complex.
In man-speak, that means, she wants you
because you're loaded with what biologists call
"genetic benefits" and "resource benefits."
Genetically speaking, you're the bees knees and
any kids produced out of this union will be
prime quality. As for resource benefits, let's just
say, she married you for the house, the car, the
club membership and your ability to protect the
aforementioned healthy offspring.
This also explains why certain balding,
potbellied men find takers sooner than their
well-bodied, charming counterparts. Women are
known to give brownie points to loyalty and his
ability to provide for the family and not just his
ability to spread quality spawn.
According to studies conducted by International
Institute for Applied Systems Analysis in
Austria, how women select their mate finds
merit in the Darwinian theory of survival of the
fittest. It can be annoying, but the study states
that picky women are actually the key to
survival and biodiversity. For example, if all
women universally liked tall men, short men
would be headed for extinction, or men with
small feet would find no place in the world.
As for women in 'love', it can be translated into
— security, I won't find anyone like him, good
father material, apt provider, self confidence.
Carnal sexual motivation however, has more
options — Revenge, envy, jealousy, money,
barter, guilt, punishment, duty, loyalty, a lesson
on loyalty, power and domination, to
sometimes, pure evil. In effect, they use sex to
express love, and to get it, and to try and keep
it.